Thursday, April 3, 2008

Cath is done

Well Andrew made it through the cardiac cath very well. I think he will even be able to be extubated by the time I get back to see him. We received wonderful news! For a little background ... I apologize that I was purposely vague with you all this morning. We were aware this morning that it was possible, depending on what they found in the cath, that there wouldn't be anything more they could do for Andrew. I guess that was just something I wasn't willing to put out there unless it was certain. Well, at this point it is still a very complex situation but one they are comfortable going ahead with surgical intervention with. His next heart surgery may be as early as Monday & will be a difficult case & a difficult recovery, but praise God, there is still hope. I need to be completely honest with all of you, Steve & I are not amazing people, we are not this strong. No one possesses the strength within themselves to go through things like this. The Lord provides each day, just like manna. I promise, there is no other way. This morning my heart was torn, it doesn't get easier to face these things, but about 12:30 I was given peace. I'm sure I'm not explaining it right, but that's the best I can do. I certainly felt scarred & nervous after that, but I had a peace in my heart. Thank you for those of you who hold us up in prayer - it has gotten us through so much. Please keep it up! We hold to the hope that we will bring our boy home to live.

6 comments:

Rich, Teresa and Kalee said...

Yay!!! Thank you Lord! And, no matter what you say, you guys are amazing!

Anonymous said...

Thanks for that update. It certainly remains a stressful situation for you, Steve and Betsy, and we're all in it with you. No one is losing hope. We're praying constantly for Andrew...that he will live and live well.

Dad T

Anonymous said...

Betsy & Steve,

You may think that your words are not explaining things right, but I can tell you that the words that both you and Steve have shared with us have truly touched us. Your love for each other, your precious boy and your Jesus comes shining through all that you say. You have nothing to apologize for about being vague-- you and Steve have to take all of these events and process them as YOU need to. Your consideration of all of us is appreciated, but don't worry about what any of us thinks in terms of how much information you give us or when. Quite simply, we love all three of you and we put you in the palm of God's hand every day.

We continue to pray for the complete healing of Andrew's heart and the blessing of living a long and strong life with you and Steve!

Love to all three of you,

Jennifer

Unknown said...

You are spot on with what you say about the Lord providing strength, courage, and peace to get through these heart wrenching situations. We are a Bible study group that includes Kathy Yohn. We have been praying for you all along. God Bless. Jimmy B.

Anonymous said...

Whether or not you choose to believe it, I know you and Steve are amazing, so humble and precious. I also know that because those around you are supportive... it helps you focus on God and you keep going to the next level one moment at a time.
"Z" is a very strong letter of the alphabet, it's even exciting to let it roll off your tongue and teeth because it makes a great buzzing sound. I think the nickname Dizzy is very appropriate for this young man of God. Tell that to Andrew for me.
Love, Grandma Dawn

Anonymous said...

I wanted to let you know Shannon asked me to pass along to you that she is thinking about you A LOT lately and keeping you in her prayers. Emily is about the same age (a few weeks older) as Andrew and she is really empathizing with you.

We're thinking about you (and of course praying for you) every day. I have nothing profound to say, just simply we love you. I am greatful for the peace you are experiencing. I am greatful for who you all are to me. Bets - I think of my precious "Best Buddy" with the bog ol' blue eyes and gentle smile - you're still that same precious little sister to me. I miss our chats about therapy and what's going on. Take care of yourselves and let us know what we can do to help.
Steve, I didn't forget about you - I really miss you telling me that I am the best sister in law you have and asking for the constant advise! Oh, I also miss your cool wardrobe changes! :) I'm here for you man!
Christy